“Love will find you when you do absolutely nothing to pursue it!!!” Has never worked for me

I spent most of my teen and adult years not focused on love. And guess what? I’ve still been alone for all 20 fucking years of my life.

Yeah sure, maybe if you’re attractive all you have to do is exist and people will ask you out. So it doesn’t matter if you put any effort in or not.

And maybe if you’re an attractive pushover, seeming less desperate by not focusing on love could help you.

But I need genuine advice on how to actually find love. And I have no fucking clue.

I’ve worked on my appearance as much as I currently can, but I know it’s more than that.

How do I actually flirt and meet people? How can I have charisma and an attractive personality or body language???

I’ve literally never had a boyfriend. It fucking sucks.

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