Hi everyone,
This is my very first reddit post. I’m not really sure why I’m doing this, I guess to get it off my chest. I always come to reddit through google searches when I’m trying to find advice on something. And I thought maybe sharing my story would help a little. My boyfriend and I had been dating for almost 8 months. I thought we had a great time together. Was always laughing and having a good time. But he never seemed to want to see me much, and always had an excuse. Well, I hadn’t even seen him in person at all the last month, and he barely would text me. So for a month we barely talked at all. It was driving me crazy, I kept asking him if something was wrong or if I did something. He would ignore the text every time. Wouldn’t say anything was wrong, just that he was busy. Yesterday, I had texted him to see what time he wanted me to come over for his family’s Christmas. Because we had all talked about it and talked about what we would eat and do. So I thought I was invited. He responded to my text by saying, “for what?” And I was like “for Christmas? Aren’t we doing that with you’re family tomorrow” and he responded “not to be rude, but I didn’t invite you. We had planned for immediate family only.” Uh...okay. That’s a different story than I had been told. I just said, okay so when can I see you again then. He told me Christmas Day. Then I asked him if we could have an actual conversation because he hadn’t been talking to me and I was lonely and missed him. He ignored me. I didn’t hear back from him until the next day, in which he sent me a text that said “well, I was going to wait until I could tell you in person. I don’t want to be in a relationship with you. You’re a good person. You’re not crazy, as I was told you were. Unfortunately I just don’t see myself with you in the future.” LIKE OW. Okay. I just think it was an extreme dick move to do this on Christmas Eve, over text, and then throw in the “I was told you were crazy part.” And especially after I had begged him to tell me if anything was wrong, because I could feel like something was. And I was right, and he ignored me for a month just to do that on Christmas Eve. I just feel so completely worthless and am hurt by the fact that I thought everything was good, but the whole time he just didn’t want to be with me. And strung me along for that long, just to break up with me on a holiday. I know it’s not the end of the world, and I’ll move on and will find better. It just hurts like hell right now. Does anyone else have similar stories?
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