Hi all, so I've been into the online dating scene for about 3 months now. I have met up with 3 guys so far. I'll just share my experiences as a newbie this past 3 months.
Guy 1 : We still keep in touch. He is a very sweet guy. We have been talking for 3 months now. Met up twice and plan to meet before the new year around next week. It seems like he's interested in me but at the same time sometimes I felt he could be just boring and wanna find someone to hang out with maybe. We don't have each other's contact number till now. We chat through other social platform. And replies usually took 2 to 3 days max. Overall a sweet and gentleman guy but I'm not really physically attracted to him (yes, I'm being shallow) But who knows I might fall for his personality instead. He is confusing me as I don't know what he wants. We never talked about it till now and our convo has been very casual and friendly.
Guy 2 : We chat almost everyday for almost a month. Met up after a week of texting non stop. Even after meeting up he made plans the next few days to meet again but I couldn't make it. However we still continue chat maybe next 2 weeks or so and then i noticed text has been slow on his end. Eventually I asked him out again. He seems eager to meet again but said he will need to reschedule with me the following week and guess what it has been radio silence since then. No texting and rescheduling from his end. Honestly, this hit me quite hard. I kinda like him. He's been showing signs of interest but when I open up he just dissappeared. And no I don't initiate anymore after that. Surely but slowly I'll get over him 😊
Guy 3: Met up with him early this week. We been talking almost a month prior to meeting up. Convo has been nice and just very friendly manner. Before the end of meet up, he asked to see him again next week in which I agreed. Well, we left and then no follow up text from him at all. Not even asking if I'm home safely that night. I know as a girl I can text first but speaking from experience, usually the guy will check on me. But well, it is what it is.
No idea what I'm tryna say but just wanna put it out there that dating is hard and to share my experiences from OLD. Too much mind games and people can be so flakey and ghosting/slow fade is so common and it makes me feel is there anything wrong with myself. know I can change the game by being forward myself. I'm an introvert and don't open up to people easily. I'm still trying and definitely learning 😊
Well I wish all single people out there good luck in looking for the one and also Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! If you're single during this festive season fret not just enjoy the moment now and when you least expect that someone might just appear 😊
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