Dating when you have Herpes SUCKS. (23f) Due to Covid it’s pretty much completely online dating. I’m not a wild person, and get to know the other enough to feel safe to meet. Nowadays, I find the subject of sex comes up and being the honest person I am, I disclose that I have Herpes.
I hate that I have it. I hate how I got it. I hate that I didn’t get to choose to not have sex with that person who gave it to me.
But now I have it, and it’s only fair to let my potential partner know.
I feel like I can’t get excited about meeting someone because I just dread telling them, and knowing they may call it off. Which is completely valid, I would, given the knowledge.
It’s incredibly discouraging and disappointing. I’m not complaining that people don’t want to have sex with me because I have it, I completely understand and accept that. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t suck that something out of my control gets to decide who I date.
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