I'm in something of a voluntary dating desert. Not a dessert, because that would be awesome. Because I attract the wrong sort of psychopath and all my red - flag-noticing ability disappears when it comes to men, I have given myself an intervention of approaching a year now.
Long story short, in a moment of madness I joined a dating app recently, matched with this guy and we had a zoom call. All went well. I messaged him after saying, " Lovely to meet you. I'd like to chat again but if you're not feeling it, that's ok, no need to respond". He replied,. "Same, I'd like to chat again".
That was two weeks ago.... Now tumbleweeds...
I gave him the perfect get out if he didn't want to chat again. Why go to the trouble of sending a message saying he felt the same, only to ghost me?
I'm truly not upset, just genuinely curious.
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