TLDR; A psychic had a very negative and visceral reaction to seeing a photo of my current talking stage, and I'm not sure how accurate her reading could be, since I've been really enjoying getting to know him, and was feeling hopeful.
I went to a Psychic last night who I was referred to by a friend. My friend highly recommended her, and I figured it wouldn't hurt to have a reading done by her.
Overall, the reading went well. She seemed to be great at picking up energy, because I really needed to go to the washroom upon my arrival, and the first thing she asked was if I needed to use the washroom (lol), to which I said it was OK, but she insisted I go before the reading. Mind you, I didn't ask or say I needed to go.
She was generally right about some things related to my family - she listed off a few letters and asked who they might be, and they ended up being the first initials of my siblings and my parents. She mentioned that she was particularly good at reading pictures/images. So I showed her pictures of my family members, and while some of her thoughts seemed generic, some things were unique and I was surprised she picked up on those.
Fast forward to when she asked about my dating life. I'm (f/26) in a new talking stage with a man (m/29) where we've only texted, and went on 1 date so far. This started in August. So far, I'm really enjoying getting to know him, enjoyed my time with him during our date, and have just been keeping it fairly casual and light, since we're only getting to know each other. I also want to take things slow. I was introduced to him by my cousin and her husband, who spoke highly of him and thought that our personalities would match perfectly. Before setting us up, my cousin asked his sister if he was single, and his sister told my cousin that in the past, he's been very clear that he's not looking for commitment. This was before he knew about me. Although I haven't asked him about his long term dating goals yet, he did mention that in the past, he's been set up with others by people in his family, and it just didn't work out, and he felt like he was letting people down (which is my theory as to why he would tell his sister he's not looking for commitment). This was also probably a year ago. My cousin told me she thinks that although he's dated a lot in the past, he just hasn't found the right person yet. Anyways, I didn't see any of this as red flags. I also had another friend tell me that her husband knows a few of his friends, and doesn't think he's a player, but instead a nice guy.
So, once the psychic asked about my dating life, I tried to beat around the bush and told her I wasn't really seeing anyone, but I was seeing someone earlier this year which didn't work out, blah blah, but she insisted and asked if I was talking to anyone at the moment. Quite frankly I didn't anticipate sharing this particular guy with her, but she asked to see a photo and IMMEDIATELY shut it down. She had such a vicseral and disgusted reaction, and said that she doesn't trust him at all and I shouldn't either, that he's a huge player, he's a pretty boy, he's not truthful, he just wants to get me in bed, and that he's a cheater. She asked if I knew what he wants since he doesn't seem to know, and I said I wasn't sure either. She seemed so annoyed and unimpressed, and said that I need to cut it off with him. I told her we have a 2nd date planned, and she said that I could still go on the date, but that I would be very annoyed afterwards, and that I should end it there. She told me not to indulge (which I wouldn't have, not this early on anyway), and to not trust him. I was so shocked by her reaction, and don't really know what to make of it. I've been having a few doubts about whether or not he was looking for commitment, but was coughing that up to my own self-sabotage, since I really don't know where he's at and wanted to have that conversation with him myself. I'm attracted to him, and have been enjoying getting to know him. I haven't felt any pressure to get physical with him, and he's been very respectful so far.
I guess my question is: how accurate could her reading be about him? Should I take this with a grain of salt? I feel torn because I wanted to make the decision myself after spending more time with him, but now feel it's clouded my judgment, which I was not prepared for. He seemed promising, and I don't want to let go of an opportunity, since I've had a difficult time dating for the last 4 years. The fact that he's been vetted for by my cousin, her husband, and my friends husband, made me feel so positive...
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