(M26) several people have told me that I’m too “sweet” and “innocent” to date women. What does it mean?

I’m 26 years old and the only girlfriend I had was in high school. We dated for around 8 months then she broke up with me. She said “I’m too kind for this world”, she didn’t elaborate further. During university several people have told me that I am just “too sweet and innocent” to date women and I’ll have a hard time finding someone. Few weeks ago I met a girl through friends and after everyone went home my friend’s girlfriend jokingly asked her if she’d date me. Guess what was her response… “he’s such a cute guy but he’s way too innocent and kind. So my question is what do people mean by “too kind” “too sweet” cuz I really don’t get it. Or is it just a nice way of saying “boring and average af”? It wouldn’t bother me if it were just one or two people who said this, but when literally everyone I meet tells me that I’m too kind it gets a bit frustrating. I don’t even bother meeting girls with the intention of dating anymore cuz of this.

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