I am such a fool thinking I need a serious relationship right now. Last year I ended a 2 year relationship so that wasn't fun. I know I'm definitely over my ex, but missing the things I got to do/get with that relationship is haunting me. The dating I've had recently was ok but nothing lasted. There is so much going on in the world now and, if accepted, I'll end up being a full-time grad student later this year. I'm unemployed and just have nothing else in my life now so I miss the attention and affection.
There is a girl that I'm seeing now. A little shaken up when she said yesterday that this has to stay casual for now. It took me over 6 months to realize casual dating is what I should be looking for. If I start grad school all my mind will have to go to that, not enough time for significant commitment. With casual dating, there shouldn't be talking every day, right? My loneliness, I think, is also making me think I need something serious right now.
Any tips to stay happy with casual dating now? With the more time I have to give more effort or commitment, that makes me want to do it. Will I naturally adjust to this if I keep enjoying time with this person but not that frequently and set the bar low?
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