I’m a 20 year old female, and he’s a 22 year old male.
Just so you guys have all the details, I met this guy at a New Year’s Eve party and he was obviously into me, and we bonded over our mutual love of dark humor and shrooms. (He may or may not be a dealer.) however, I got pretty drunk and forgot to get his number, so a couple weeks later I got it from a mutual friend.
We chatted for a couple hours but he took like 15 to 30 minutes to respond to my texts until he said he’d respond more quickly on snapchat and added me on that. We talked a bit about the classes I’m taking, and then I ended the conversation with “I have an 8 am class tomorrow, so I’m gonna call it a night. Hit me up whenever”.
It’s been just over a week and I haven’t heard from him, but I’m considering hitting him up for some shrooms. I know someone else, but he’s more convenient. However, I don’t want to chase him, or make him think I’m more interested than he is, because I’ve made that mistake in the past and have ended up getting used. my sister says guys loose respect for you the second you do that, and to ALWAYS wait for the guy to make the next move.
Maybe he’s waiting to text me so that HE won’t look too interested. Or maybe he’s losing interest, and me texting him might start things up again. I honestly don’t know, but I do know that I’m overthinking things. Any advice at all would be appreciated.
TLDR: met a cute guy at a party then got his number a couple weeks later from a mutual friend and chatted for a bit. We haven’t talked in a week and I’m debating wether or not to hit him up, but I don’t want to seem more interested than him.
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