Update: Always trust yourself when something feels off and do not gaslight yourself

So I posted this yesterday

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/koncbr/two_dates_with_no_spark_can_love_and_affection/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

And I stated in the post “ i dont know why I am like this” and I was really doubting myself. Well surprise surprise, turns out its not my anxiety but my intuition that was ringing the alarm bells! I have been gaslighting myself and doubting myself about why I felt uneasy and felt like something is wrong.

Turns out he was lying about who he was. Everything he said has been empty words. He is older than what he said and He has a secret girlfriend of 5 years. The reason I was unable to feel a spark was because he was being inauthentic and so we didn’t have a genuine connection.

Atleast I caught on early but my tip is to ALWAYS trust yourself. Do not distrust your own body. Respect your body enough to listen to it! Do not gaslight yourself. By doubting myself I was abandoning myself. I am disgusted and horrified because if I wouldnt allow someone to treat me like that then why did I do that to myself??

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