So I've already come to my own conclusion in this which is just to simply move on to the next one as this is already a big red flag to me early on. But I'm interested if anyone has some insight on this behavior.
So I met this girl about two months ago, when first meeting she was very receptive always wanted to video call, easy to set up dates ect. Our last date was a week ago in which we went out to a bar and then kissed at the end.
Now lately she's had multiple times where she just didn't respond for a day or two and then afterwords would message oh sorry didn't see you messaged me or oops forgot to write back. I get it some people are busy but she didn't indicate this just simply that she forgot which seems like a lie to me. Its a change in the pattern and vibe of when we first met. I also noticed a decrease in wanting to video chat or leave it up in the air with a maybe when asking to set up a date. I understand that behavior, ive done it myself it means she's losing interest.
So whatever, I have self respect never double messaged her if she didn't respond I leave it there. But like I said she keeps coming back. I tolerated it like 2-3 times but I'm not about playing this game so when she did this again yesterday I just ignored her.
Fast foward I have 3-4 messages on Facebook from her 2 missed calls, Im just not understanding this mentality. It gives off bad vibes to me in terms of her mental health and I dont plan to keep pursuing but can anyone make sense of this behavior? How are you going to say you didn't notice me message you on FB when you've been online for most the day and then when I finally had enough and move on act suprised and blow my phone up
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