I have been seeing a guy for a few months now. We haven’t had “the talk” about being exclusive full commitment to each other. Although, we have had multiple conversations about not sleeping with other people and not being on and or using dating apps anymore. There’s no other way to describe this other than I got an odd gut feeling I should check the app we met on (hinge) to see if his profile was still the same or if it was updated since we matched.
I noticed he rearranged his photos and I know there is no way hinge just magically changes your photos around. I also know he did this in the past two weeks because I had gotten on hinge early December to show a friend his profile and it was still the same from when we matched.
I know I need to address it since we had multiple conversations about not using dating apps while seeing each other. If we never had the conversation I wouldn’t feel the need to confront him since the topic was never discussed, but since it was I feel like trust is broken. I fully know I shouldn’t have gone on and checked when we both agreed to not be on them.
My question is how should I address this conversation without sounding absolutely insane? Or should I not even bother addressing it?
Full disclosure: I know how crazy it sounds that I noticed he changed around his profile but I have a great memory and pay attention to detail. Also I know how crazy it is to even go and check lol.
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