So, I am in need of some advice, and this is kinda hard for me as I have Autism so I tend to overthink a lot of things leading to me not doing a lot of stuff. So, if anyone would be able to help, would be greatly appreciated.
Firstly, about me. As I mentioned, I have Autism (Asperger’s), I am 21 years old, male, really awkward, in a job, and regularly ask Reddit for help (shocker).
So, a girl who I had feelings for back in secondary school has “resurface” to me by following me on Instagram, which was unexpected as I know a lot of people in school never liked me, but to see her was a pleasant surprise.
Now a bit of background on the girl. Lovely, kind, really pretty. Said the very first nicest thing to me in a long time when I joined the school. We were in the same friend group, which is how I met her after I moved towns and fell in with some people. Went to a few parties as well, which kinda made that friendship state but I knew I felt some good vibes every time I hung out with her. I did have a feeling she was someone special. Finished school together, went to prom (not as a couple), and that was the end of the school chapter.
Now roll on neatly 3 years later, she is studying at university in a Computing course, and I work in a 9-5 job. There has been a few times where we mention to each other happy birthday and such but friendships don’t last outside the school years sadly. And here we reach the Instagram follow, and the resurgence of feelings.
So my yearn for advice is this: How should I make contact with this girl, who I do have feelings for, how can I not make it awkward, how do I direct an approach to a date (for after COVID), and how do I keep that socialism up considering my Autism?
This would be really appreciated if I can have some help.
(PS: And yes, for those who would say it, she could say no and it can hurt but I have handled rejection before. I have one date under the belt, and multiple rejections as well.)
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