Hi, 24m here. so recently I’ve been getting a crazy amount of attention from women, mostly at the gym, and I am kind of overwhelmed. I am not used to this at all. I feel like i just woke up from a dream as a new person. I have been going to the gym for a couple years now so my physique is pretty decent and I grew out my beard which seems to have had a big effect.
Basically I feel like I’m being closed in on. So many people vying for my attention. I have an extremely high sex drive and crave intimacy (been single for four years now with very little interaction with women) but i am really introverted and I don’t want to sleep around. I want to pick someone who I’m compatible with, and I feel like it’s hard to get to know someone when the focus is aesthetics or sex in general in a place like the gym.
Can you guys give me some examples of how you found a really good person who fit well with you and how that came about? At my core I’m just a big nerd and a big softie. If I’m going to have a relationship I want those things to be valued…Am I overthinking this? I want a relationship but I don’t want to be desperate because that never ends well in my experience, and this whole thing has made me feel like I’m being cornered in a way.
Side note- not trying to come across as complaining. The attention is nice sometimes I just don’t have a fucking clue what to do 😭🫨
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