I’m a M24, turning 25 in a couple months. I have no relationship experience. I’m pretty shy and overweight, so it just didn’t happen for me in high school or college. I’ve also never kissed a girl or had sex, so unfortunately no experience in terms of intimacy either. I’m slowly making peace with all of it. I’m working on losing weight, finding a better job, and just feeling good about myself before I start actually trying to date. However, that won’t be for another couple of months. I would say 6 months to a year.
I’m just really worried my lack of relationship experience is an automatic dealbreaker for women that are around my age. Not only will the physical intimacy be lackluster (I shouldn’t be learning how to kiss when I’m 25), but my main concern is that women will view me as a bad partner because I’ve never been a partner before. I don’t know how to have a romantic relationship and how to deal with everything it comes with. I just don’t see many women wanting to deal with having to walk me through everything.
Am I making too big a deal out of this? Should I be worried at all about this?
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