I matched with this girl on hinge about a week ago, I didn’t find her super cute or anything but she seemed like a vibe and conversation was really good so I set up a date with her to give it a chance and see what happened. We met for coffee to make sure the vibes were good then went out for a picnic. We had fun, good conversation and I did enjoy the time with her. However like I said I’m not super attracted to her, to the point where I’m not sure I would be happy ultimately. After some brief debate I still decided to set up another date with her since the chemistry was good otherwise. Now, the next morning, I’m debating if I should really go out with her again. I feel like more than likely after a second date the physical attraction still will not grow enough and if I do end it then I’ll feel worse and like I led her on which I’m certainly not trying to do but I’m not sure if that will be the case. And please understand I don’t think the success of a relationship is dependent on physical attraction alone of course but I think attraction does need to be at a high enough level and I’m just not sure it will be for me. Should I go out with her again to see what happens knowing it’s honestly more likely the physical is still going to be a dealbreaker? Or just tell her that after more time to think I’m just not feeling the romantic connection and that I feel terrible for setting up another date and then canceling? Either way I kind of feel like an asshole but it’s a tough call given the how well the first date went. Thanks 🙏
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