So I made a thread the other day about being a 35 yo virgin found here: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n0kqpk/im_a_35_year_old_virgin_how_can_i_lose_my/
People told this, that, and everything in between: hire a sex worker, work on confidence;etc. I've decided to work on myself before hiring a sex worker or anything like that and that means interacting with flesh and blood in a real way. I want to earn it.
So I've been on Tinder. I matched with a great looking woman with a quirky sense of humor. Just my style. We're chatting and she's liking my jokes, calls me funny, we start hearting each other's messages, and I eventually ask her out. She even said to flirt with her and ask her out on her profile. She hasn't responded since though.. Did I fuck up? Give me some criticism on what to improve on.
I also like to write so I might make some messages too long. I'm sure that was a turn off but it's hard to turning off that part of myself and it feels inauthentic if I don't write.
Interaction here in order so you can get the entire context of the convo.
Where did I fuck up? Notice she still liked the last message. I don't know if I'm being played with (she's too old for that) or if she's legitimately turned off.
Thanks again for the great advice the other day.
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