I started seeing this guy I met 3 months ago which has been just a casual relationship so far. We’ve slept together a few times and he texts me everyday but have never hung out outside of my place. He’s currently in the fire academy so he told me he’s extremely busy so now we dont talk as often. Ive told him that I like him and that I do want more but dont want to continue with this relationship if he doesnt feel like working towards something more or to at least give me clarity. since I know the academy will take priority no matter what i didnt mean this like i need attention 24/7, i just need some clarity that way I dont get hurt and/or waste my time. I honestly thought he would say fuck it and just agree to end things since I gave an ultimatum but he argued that he does want to be around me and it’s just that hes busy. He didnt mention anything about his feelings other than what I mentioned.
it just feels like we’re in limbo now and Idk what to do. The academy lasts until end of summer and although I do like him and I want to support him Idk if he feels strongly enough for me. I dont want to waste my time on someone who doesnt feel the same but I dont know if we’re in this place temporarily or not. I dont want to stress him out while hes dealing with the academy.
Should I just ride it out for a few more weeks and bring up how I feel? I dont want to seem needy 😭
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