Hello everyone! long time lurker here. I (M24) have a specific request that I hope someone can help me out with. Background: I live in a country and city where safety is a huge issue and there are areas in the city that are very unsafe, without mentioning the daily cases of kidnappings and violence. I recently started using Tinder and I matched with this beautiful girl (F21), but her profile was not verified, naturally, I thought it was a catfish but I pressed on. I asked for her Instagram and we have been chatting there for about a week. We have our first date tomorrow and I am having some second thoughts. "Flags" I have seen: 1. Her Instagram has stories/posts from about 4 years back, a good sign, but all her pictures are only of her, no friends, travels, or social events. 2. She lives in one of the previously mentioned unsafe areas (not like ghettos/slums, but more like low-income, which of course is not a problem itself) 3. She does have stories where she is at social events/with her friends, but she is not tagged on any pictures (perhaps she disabled it?).
Anyways, to be 100% sure she is real, I want to request that she sends me a picture where she is doing a sign or something so that I can see that she is real, so my request is, how can I ask her to do this without creeping her out?
I know I should have asked her before we set the date, but too late now! Lesson learned.
TLDR: How can I ask a tinder date to prove she is real without creeping her out?
PS. Sorry for bad English!
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