I (24F) met a guy on Bumble (24M) about a month ago, we met up yesterday for a date which lasted about 6 hours, and we got on really well, there was a lot of chemistry etc. We ended up going back to his. We stayed up until 5am talking, and having sex. It was verryyy cuddly, intimate, passionate etc. like no one I’ve ever been with before. Even the next morning, more of the same cuddling and sex, and he ordered breakfast and was really sweet. I don’t get player vibes; he seemed very genuine and he asked was I free next week.
Weirdly, as soon as I got up to leave, he was a bit distant & gave me a weak hug goodbye. (It’s possible this part I’m misinterpreting this part, it was just a quick goodbye & there was an older gentleman standing in the hallway of the building so maybe he didn’t want a PDA, and he was also supposed to be WFH so probably just wanted to get back this work that he’d neglected all morning idk). This bit left me feeling really paranoid. He didn’t text later that night or anything. It’s only been 10 hours since I left his house lol. But I’ve been let down so many times by guys wrote that I’m really cautious of getting my hopes up that this has potential.
If a guy is really passionate and cuddly with a girl (after sex), is it a sign that he’s genuine? Or do guys fake this stuff? I’m not sure if I’m being paranoid or naive.
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