(This isn’t a pity post, I’m just trying to see if anyone relates or can give advice on how to deal with this feeling)
So I’m guy, 20 going on 21, very very sheltered and inexperienced when it comes to sex and dating. I was in catholic school, then a small DOD school in Japan, then boys military school and then 2 years of normal high school and now a normal college. I’ve really only gone to a normal school with normal people for about 4 years.
From ages 10 to 16 I had very little contact with girls and it’s really impacted me. I was also a late bloomer and I didn’t go through the change til I was 17 and I was not able to compete with all the other post puberty guys in my year.
Now I’m in college and I have no experience with women. I’m nearly 21 and I’m still a virgin, I’ve never had my first kiss, I have as much experience with women as I had when I was 10 and it’s very embarrassing. I don’t know anyone that’s as far behind as I am, I actually don’t have any friends that are still virgins.
I really have been trying to meet girls but I’m just so awkward and bad at speaking to women it’s never once gone positively. I’m really afraid of one day graduating, and then having to try to meet women just going through life.
I don’t know how to hook up or how to ask women out, which will all be things that are expected of me to know. Whats even scarier is how inexperienced I’ll be if something physical happens. I literally have no idea how to kiss. I know you put your lips on someone else’s but that’s really it. The whole concept is scary to me. And then sex would be another massive hurdle. And I doubt any woman would have the patience to teach a guy in his mid twenties something 90% of people learned in early high school and college.
How can I can conquer this fear, or better yet learn the things I don’t know how to do?
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