Hi everyone,
So I’m trying not to make this one of the “woe is me” posts that you typically see on here. I’m just genuinely struggling at the moment and I’m in a really bad place. I have no friends to talk to, and I genuinely just need to tell somebody this.
I personally feel like all I’ve tried to do in the name of love, hookups, being with girls etc. has really failed to work. I’m well aware of the idea of waiting and not rushing into love, and letting love find you. I genuinely just don’t think that is going to happen anymore. People have said every pot has its lid for the longest time, but unfortunately I just don’t think it’s true.
I feel like no matter what angle I approach talking to girls from, it just doesn’t work out. I know people tell me that it’s just the individual girls or stuff like that but I genuinely have no idea anymore.
I thought my biggest issue was overdoing it with girls, I gave way too much, I didn’t let them chase, I became attached. That to me was what I saw as being my biggest flaw. So I attempted to put an end to it, and for a while I did.
I tried differently on 2-3 girls by being more reserved, making them attempt to come to me, letting them work but still keeping a foot in like you’re supposed to, and that failed to work.
So I figured I would try even less, which I did, and I really gave hardly anything. That also completely failed to work.
I fucking hate being the guy to say this type of stuff on Reddit and cry to people who will most likely less than care, but i really don’t have anyone else to say it to.
For the people who also think it’s just about girls, unfortunately, it’s not. I have been a mess personally with and without girls. I’m in therapy, I am the moodiest person you’d ever meet and no matter what people say or do I can’t enjoy anything.
Love briefly takes that away for me, but unfortunately then I begin to rely too much on it and I become back to square one, depressed.
I definitely think it’s a microcosm of many personal issues, but I should be happy, it makes zero sense why I’m not.
I’m alone in my hotel room on a fucking vacation right now and I couldn’t possibly be more depressed than I currently am. I just feel like I’ve hit rock bottom.
Again, I’m super sorry to everyone that I’m crying on a subreddit about this, I’m just a mess and I have nowhere to turn.
Thank you.
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