I'm having a hard time with dating. I've had nice dates, been ghosted, and ran into extremely clingy women. I've been either told I'm too boring, or too quiet by a few women so far. This conflicts with my friends/family, who say I have a great personality. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I am always respectful and try to start good conversation.
I've been cheated on in my last long term relationship. To be honest, I didn't feel good enough for a long time. I questioned my worth. Therapy was extremely helpful. My therapist says I should keep working at dating. She said it's allowing me to "sort out" what I like and dislike. However, it starts to suck when you keep getting told that you're "boring". Sure, I'm introverted, but is that a major turnoff for people? I also love traveling, local events, and trying new restaurants. I thought dating was supposed to be exciting. Instead, I'm constantly learning what I lack, and how I'm not good enough for people. I honestly think I'm an interesting and cool person to be around.
Seriously thinking of giving up.
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