A couple months back i(20M)started going to a social anxiety group. It was a group meant for kids at my school to get together over zoom and learn how to cope with their anxiety and get better with talking to others. The group only lasted for about 6 weeks.
In this group, I had met this really nice girl(21 F). Usually each meeting( meetings were once a week) involved a one on one breakout session with another student where we did an exercise together. For some reason, eventhough there were like 20 students, for 2 weeks in a row this girl was my partner, and on the last week we were partners as well. Over these 3 breakout sessions, i really enjoyed talking to her. I found out that we had a lot in common.
At the end of the program, i asked for her number and she gave it to me. We started texting and i asked her out to get bubble tea. She said that she was down but after she got her second vaccine(one thing we talked about was how we both were waiting on the vaccine to go out and see people). So i understood this and said no worries and left it at that.
After i abruptly ended the conversation, she kept it going which i had found interesting. Alot of the people in the group struggle with agreeableness, so at the time i thought she was doing that because she had said no to me, especially because the conversation had reached a natural ending imo.
After a while, i left her on read. She was taking along time to respond, the conversation was dying again, and i got the vibe she was just texting to be polite. In retrospect, i wish i had sent her something along the lines of, it was nice talking to you, lmk when your comfortable hanging out, instead of just leaving her on read.
Im contemplating hitting her up again. By now shes definitely fully vaccinated as its been a couple of months. As someone dealing with alot of the stuff she is dealing with, i really dont want to make her uncomfortable. I dont want to her to be put in a position where she has to text someone to be polite, which i would hate if i was her. What do u guys think? Should i message her or leave it?
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