I've [M28] been dating a girl [F25] for about a year now and at first things were all good but I am starting to notice a few changes in her behavior.
Basically I am from a very well off family and I don't need to work due to a large inheritance I was left with when i was 20. My weekdays are normally spent volunteering and doing charitable causes. I volunteer at my local charity shop and soup kitchen daily and always help out in fundraising for the vulnerable. In order to determine whether a girl is genuine in her interest in me rather than my personal wealth I tell her I work in sales.
I live in a nice modern apartment but nothing too extravagant as i just want to live a nice low key life. However 2 days ago she woke me up early as she wanted to buy some groceries and asked if I needed anything. She couldn't find her bank card so i told her to take my debit card from my wallet and use it.
It wasn't until when she came back and i was properly awake i realised she had taken the debit card i have which is from a well known private bank and she gave it back to me asking how i'm able to bank with them.
Thinking that she would respond maturely, i eventually told her about my upbringing, family and the inheritance i was left with, and that i actually volunteer instead of working in sales. I felt as we were 1 year in i didn't want to keep lying to her and i felt i could trust her.
However she's then started complaining as to why i spend my free time at the charity shops instead of us going on holiday together travelling around the world, or us being able to do visit luxury restaurants and high class events etc, saying i should focus on her more and spoiler her more as i can afford to. I treat her well by buying her nice, quite pricy gifts and for her birthday i took her away for a weekend getaway which she really enjoyed at the time. She mentioned that my money that i donate to charity doesn't help the cause anyway and that the higher ups are keeping the money. Just talking a lot of nonsense and it's starting to really bother me as she was originally a very nice girl until she found out about my family and wealth and i'm unsure where to go from here.
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