I'm an average looking 5'5 black guy on Tinder, to many people this is unimportant, but after doing my research about Tinder and who's statistically being chosen in the male department, I'm nowhere near that point.
This isn't me seeking pity cause I don't need it, it's more so accepting the reality of this whole thing, the girls I have managed to get a small convo with on Tinder told me add them on snapchat, I've added so many women on snapchat from Tinder thinking "This is the one that won't leave me on read" But no, they all do while they continue to post on their stories.
Finally ran into this cute asian girl, she was a little chubby, but she was cute to me, and she went to church regularly which is something I haven't done in a long time so I saw that as even more of a reason to be interested.
I started messaging her on snap things were going great, we set up a date for me to come over to her house, I told her I know how to cook and she wanted me to come over and cook us dinner on our first date. She stays a little over an hour away.
The weekend finally arrives, later into the evening I said I'll be on my way soon, she shot me a message saying "Change of plans, I'm helping out at church, sorry" never mentioned that all day, not until I said I was getting ready to come over. I guess I'm not good enough to help her at church either which really would've been a good environment to get to know her.
I left the conversation for a while, for about a week. Today I saw her on her snap story, just a video of her reflection in the mirror playing with her hair, I messaged her see asked what's up? I asked was she free for the weekend, she said no, no reason this time just a flat out no. I'm 28, I've been swiping on Tinder since last year, and out of an entire year of swiping, that was the best I could do........I'm done with it
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