I’m still trying to wrap my head around this. We had been seeing each other for half a year, and by the time I found out, we had already stopped dating. But I’m still baffled because even after half a year, she didn’t want to commit to a relationship, but committed to this new guy after one month, which happened two weeks after we stopped dating. I asked if I could talk to her about what was going on, and she agreed. When I found out she had started seeing him while we were together, I was crushed. At first, she refused to answer the question, and that told me everything. I told her that, and she admitted to it. She apologized and said that what she did was really shitty. But it’s not like a simple “I’m sorry” can fix what she did. I went on a self-destructive spiral, drinking myself to oblivion and stuffing myself with junk food for a solid week, and in three weeks, put on 20 pounds.
So now, I’m trying to get back out there. I’ve downloaded some dating apps, but have been pretty unsuccessful. I’ve been on one date, and she didn’t feel any meaningful connection. And the few times I’ve matched with anyone else, my dating anxiety goes into overdrive and I end up ending things before they start.
Lately, I’ve been working out, eating healthier, and have been taking anxiety meds. I’ve heard this can help with the dating world, but so far, no luck whatsoever. Hell, there’s one girl I really wanna ask out, but I can’t because she’s my coworker (I haven’t said anything to anyone about it though) and I know trying to date a coworker is quite inadvisable to do.
So I’m out of ideas. Thoughts?
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