Just before the first lockdown last year, I got a match on bumble with honestly my dream guy. Loads in common, he was hot, messages were fun and easy to talk to.
We went on three dates And we got on sooo well, it was so much fun, talked for hours, talked about future dates. I was excited
He was always dreadful at replying between dates , and often took over a week to reply. but Then after the third date I sent a message to say I had a lovely time. He took 5 weeks to send me this:
‘Hey 😊 Let me start with a genuine apology! I promise I wasnt trying to be rude. I've been out and about visiting people in London and then Birmingham over the past 3 weeks. Quite clearly my brain doesnt do well with more than one task at a time 😂
How are you keeping? Have you been up to much?
I would like to keep talking, we get on well 🙂 But I'll be honest with you, my communication skills arent likely to improve so if you're okay with the casual, friendly, and stress free nature of our talking than yeah let's keep talking 😁
I hope you're doing well 😊 X’
I replied back to say I didn’t see much point in keeping texting.
It’s been 6 months since, and I really miss him. I’ve tried dating apps but no one makes me feel like he made me feel. I haven’t been attracted to anyone since. I feel like I made a mistake with that text, should I have just accepted him taking 3 weeks to reply to each message, he said he had adhd and depression
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/33pS1DJ
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment