NSFW So about 3 weeks ago I made a post and thought my issue was respected but I’m having second thoughts again and need some input. Me 18m and my gf 18f have an amazing relationship. She is sweet, caring, attractive, funny, smart, and I love her so much. But the only thing that I feel our relationship is lacking on is sex. I talked with her about it before and she chalked it up to not having time due to us bothe being 18 living at home and family was always around. And she was a bit nervous, she is not nervous anymore and is ready but there’s never time or she says she feels gross and dosnt want to. I completely respect her boundaries and understand but this has been going on for about 9 months. My last post (deleted) was about how I didn’t think she cared about my sexual needs and desires and maybe I was being a bit to pushy. Everyone told me that I was not being pushy and that My needs are important to. I just needed to talk to her 1 on 1 to express my wants and how I feel. So I did just that and it went great. We have been doing things more and more slowly over the course of our relationship and after that conversation she started to do a little more for me. I have always sexually pleased her, giving her head, dry humping till she finishes,etc. However I got nothing in return ever. That was only changed recently. My new dilemma is that what if things stop again? Like if we moved in together would we have sex more? So I decided to talk to her. I asked if she thought if we moved in together there would be more sex then there is now? She just said idk and that was the end of it. That made me feel undesired. I can’t help but feel maybe I’m missing out, like what if someone else could make me feel just as loved and fulfill my sexual needs as well? I hate that I feel this way and I feel like a piece of shit for thinking about it but I don’t know what to do.
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