Known this guy 14 years (family friends) have been hooking up every now and again over the past 8 years. Normally he’s mature, treats me nice, looks after me, just generally a good guy which is why I don’t mind casually hooking up with him. It’s always drama free and I get not only my sexual needs met but my emotional ones too.
His friend recently found out about me and turns out he really fancies me and wants me, my fwb told me about it, his friend added me on insta and slid in my dm, I pied him (this was in jan).
Recently saw fwb for first time in ages, and he was acting completely different to normal, being really immature, proper laddish and just acting like a bit of a dick. He kept talking about his friend (bad stuff) and I had to tell him that I’m not going to sleep with his friend. At one point he wanted to get a selfie of us to send to his friend (to gloat or to brag) I didn’t.
Anyways since then his friend has tried hitting me up again so they have obviously discussed me sleeping with him the other night. I just feel it’s really childish & disrespectful to me - to treat me like a piece of meat in their game. And bragging about it as I’m some sort of trophy.
It’s actually pissed me off that he’s acted that way (especially because I didn’t expect it from him) I really want to bring it up with him as I feel disrespected & like an object - but at the same time I also feel like it’s not worth it with us being just fwb. But at the same time I don’t want him to feel like it’s ok to disrespect me like that.
Do I bring it up? (He’s 32 I might add, so is definitely old enough to know better)
P.S - didn’t know what community to put this under as there isn’t any hookup advice
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