Pretty sure this story has been told here a million times but why not.
So my friend (22F) and I (20M) have known each other since middle school. I was and still am the shy, introverted kid who was a late bloomer as well and she was the popular, beautiful girl who everyone liked. We were friendly then but then she moved away. Fast forward to sophomore year in high school as we reconnect again and start getting along more and more to where we get really close. At this time, I have no idea why we're even speaking and why she wants anything to do with me but that's how things turned out. Then, she completely boxes me out as she was not in a good relationship at the time and all her friends including me knew this guy was not good for her so eventually we just stop talking all together. I wasn't mad because I knew what happened but at the same time I wasn't enthusiastic about it either. Keep in mind at this time she already introduced to her friend at the time as we got along well too but when this happened we got even closer, even closer than how she an I did.
Fast forward to about a year ago when we reconnect again. I forgot what led to us talking again but we hashed things out and everything that happened in the past was water under the bridge. She got out of that awful relationship thank god and has since dated people here and there but at the time when we reconnect she is in a serious relationship again and eventually get engaged. I was happy for her obviously. She still lives far away at this point.
Then about a month ago they start having problems and affects them hard and apparently according to her their relationship the entire time was not as it seemed. They broke everything off and she moves back locally again to where I am.
Now is the when the advice I'm asking comes in haha I'm so sorry to anyone who reads this. Point is, we both admit to each other that we had crushes on the other person eventually. Me in middle school and back in high school when we first started talking again. Her a year ago when we first started talking again. We talked about it and we're going out to see if there's something here or not and we both don't want to lose our friendship.
I just need to know what I can do to approach the whole situation.
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