I (30F) live in a big city. I have a car but I hardly drive it because it is old, I don’t know how to park it, and I’m scared of driving.
I am also not super well off so I don’t Uber much because it’s expensive. I do walk a bunch and I take the subway.
I am dating a guy with a car who drives it every day. He is also a doctor and he frankly makes a ton of money.
I live in neighborhood A. He lives in neighborhood B. It takes about 25 minutes to drive between the two. Neighborhood A has a lot of public transportation. Neighborhood B doesn’t have any.
We’ve been on two dates before, both in my neighborhood.
After the second date we were supposed to go hiking but I canceled it due to rain. He texted: * Hi, If you ever interested in visiting my part of town, maybe watch a movie. Let me know. *
I didn’t know if I felt comfortable going to his house so I said: Sure we can go to a movie
He ignored that comment and just proceeded to text me a bunch. Then eventually asked: “When do we get to watch that tv show together?”
I didn’t respond and basically ghosted even though he texted me the day after as well.
A month went by and then I texted him yesterday. We talked a bit until he said: Good. Was gonna ask you, if you wanted to hang out in my part of town. I live by a shopping center with multiple restaurants. Really nice place. Let me know.
Why is he so adamant about going to his side of town? Is it a red flag?
Also how should I address it if I don’t really want to go there? I’d much rather just hang out in places I can take public transportation to. Literally anywhere with a subway stop would do
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