so, there's this beautiful woman who's a couple years younger than me that I see around the church I go to. I'm very attracted to her but I'm pretty shy because I was abused as a kid and have some weird attachment/panic issues when talking to women.
this morning I woke up and got ready. I knew she would be there today. I told myself "you're gonna do this! you're gonna ask her out today and you're not gonna puss out!" I show up kinda late because she usually does. but when she gets there, she's not alone. her sister and her sisters boyfriend came with her. I got a little freaked out by that because it was that moment that I realized her sister is someone I've known for years and was my dream girl when we were teenagers. so I walked in behind them. I don't stop her.
her sister saw me and gave me a hug, introduced me to her and we went inside. I sat down behind them and on the other side of the room from them for an hour wondering if I'm going to have the balls to talk to her after all. towards the end of the service, she turned to look at me, and we stare at each other for a few seconds. I smiled, she looked down. she's a total stunner and I get anxiety just looking at her. the service ended, I had no-one to mill around and talk to so I walked out and hung around to find someone to chat it up with to hopefully time walking out to my truck at the same time they go to theirs.
they arrive at their vehicles at the same time I do. but then they hang around and talk and I feel really awkward asking her out in front of her sister. so I just wait, I was not going to go home without saying something. after a minute, they break it off and she gets into her car, as she's about to leave, she turns and looks at me again. I smile and she just stares.
she turned back to put it into drive and I walk straight to her window. she turns and is surprised. huge smile, super sweet. I say that I didn't want to keep her too long and that I didn't want to bug her when she talked to her sister. then I popped the question...
we're going out tonight. 😁
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