Some background the 2 of us have been good friends for 2 years before we started dating. I flirted with her online, since our countries pandemic response has been awful. She reciproted, and we got to chatting online every single day. We vibed well, and we bonded by watching a movie together online every night. I eventually asked her our for Valentine's, and we went on our first physical date. We usually meet once a week, but due to rising COVID cases we had to reduce that to every other week.
March and April were great months for us, she admitted that she liked me back, and our conversations and bond have been very romantic and strong. We were very sweet with eachother. She even told her friends, that she was happy with what is happening between us. However, these past few weeks I sensed that she's being cold. In the past we used to always greet each other good night, but these past few days I was the only one greeting her a good night. She used to complain and get sad when I don't message her first, but recently I noticed that she won't even react if I don't message her all day. She used to use a lot of emojis when chatting with me, but now her messages are just pure text.
Our conversation used to flow really well, with her adding random subjects, and sharing snippets from her life, but now she only replies briefly, as if she's no longer interested in talking. It feels like I'm talking to a stranger now, whereas in the past it feels just like talking to a bestfriend. It feels like I have to make up random interesting topics, just so I can get her to reply.
What fucking sucks, is I don't even know why she's acting like that. We haven't gotten into any arguments, our physical dates have been successful and fun, she even admitted that she likes me and misses me.
Today she hasn't messaged me for 2 days. Not even a good morning or good night. I know she has access to the net since she still uploads Facebook stories.
I was wondering if I should talk to her about this. I saw youtube videos from "Dating gurus" saying that if a girl suddenly goes cold, it means she's testing you and you should just keep on having fun with her; but I don't know if that's actually a reliable source of advice. Or, should I just stop messaging her at all, and wait for her to reach out?
What should I do? I love this girl. So as much as possible I'd like to repair our relationship.
Tl;dr Girl I was happily dating suddenly became cold, without any obvious reason why. Was wondering if I should address the elephant in the room with her.
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